What Do
You Hope For In Your Life?
by: Cory L. Kemp
What do you hope for in your
life?
It's a simple enough
question, but one I find most people are at a loss to
answer, or at least uncomfortable considering. I sometimes
hear people hope for good weather for an event or a trip, or
a sports victory, or even a good parking space at the mall.
I rarely hear people hope for anything large or having
substance, as if to do so is a voodoo curse.
So, no holds barred, what
would you hope for if there were no restrictions, no limits?
Health, the perfect job, a comfortable home, an opportunity
to travel the world? I challenge you to take a deep breath,
exhale, close your eyes and try this excercise. Try to
remember the very best, most magical day of your life. What
was it like? Who was with you? Where were you? What were you
doing? Remember the sounds, the smells, the flavor of each
moment as you revive these memories in your mind and being.
Cherish each smile, each reflection, each thought as you
recall each detail. What did that experience feel like?
Now, keep your eyes closed,
take another deep breath, and exhale. Imagine that tomorrow
is all yours. You have the opportunity to create a perfect
day, just the way you would like it. No one else creating
your life or calling the shots. No one laying claims on any
of your time. No financial restrictions. What would you do
with tomorrow? Would you get up early to watch the sunrise?
Take a quick trip to the seashore? Clean out your closets?
Plant a new flowerbed in your front yard? Read a favorite
book? Fly to New Orleans for a stroll down Bourbon Street?
Work a few hours at a soup kitchen before taking off for the
opera in New York?
Open your eyes and jot down
everything you might like to do. There's no point in
pretending you can't do everything on that list because you
can. Not necessarily all in one day, but there is no reason
to believe that the desires of our hears cannot be realized.
The first step is to practice hoping in concrete forms.
Small, medium or large hopes are an intregral part of the
foundation of our faith and our lives. "The Word became
flesh and dwelt among us." God's Word is hope, and our
imagining this hope alive is the first step to making this
hope, our desires and God's desires for us and the world
manifest.
Hope small, hope medium, hope
large. Hope often. Keep a hope journal and see what comes of
actually believing that God hopes with us. Live your hopes
and see what that does to shape your life.
About The Author
Cory L. Kemp
As an ordained
minister I have worked in educational ministries in
several congregations, as well as pastoring a
congregation. My writing has focused on nonfiction
essays and I have recently submitted a theological
memoir for publication. My ministerial background
and love of writing have combined to develop
Creating Women Ministries, a website dedicated to
encouraging theological dialogue, particularly among
women, through workshops, journaling and personal
spiritual development. My email address is
creatingwomen@irun.com.
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